Fellatio, Round 4
- You know that feeling when you step out of the bath and the air hits your skin for the first time? Breath (warm and cool) on a moist erection has the same chilling effect. It is a nice go between as you alternate your position to focus on two lesser emphasized arousal points below.
- Often an overlooked factor in fellatio, are a man’s testicles. Guys, your part is to keep things looking well-groomed and inviting. There is a certain hesitation to be exploring down there because of the incredible sensitivity. Continue stroking him with your hand. Let your tongue trace over the testes and take them one at a time into your mouth (gently). Massage them gently with your tongue. An alternative to this would be to continue focusing on his erection and let your hands and fingertips find their way to his balls instead. I mentioned before the touch of fingers on such sensitive skin can be very arousing.
- If you’re really planning an evening full of his pleasure, try adding accessories like cock rings and toys for anal stimulation. By anal stimulation, I don’t necessarily mean a plug. A little dancing around the periphery with a small vibrator or other small toy intensifies the pleasure.
- Deep throating is a technique revered by some and feared by many. There may be countless websites that find gagging a gal fascinatingly erotic, but I’m not one of them. If you can’t do it without gagging, you can still perform an amazing blow job. There are certain angles (mentioned in Round 2) that can increase the possibility of accomplishing it. If the gag reflex is overwhelming, try keeping his erection to the roof of your mouth, and well your tongue up against the back of your throat. The gag reflex is typically the worst if your tongue is fully extended (that’s my experience, anyway).
- It is ultimately your choice whether or not to swallow. Your partner’s diet, health, habits and frequency of ejaculation will determine the quantity and taste of the ejaculate. The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes, may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian. Instead of swallowing, you can take it in your mouth and discreetly deposit into a nearby towel, withdraw and finish with your hand, let your partner come on your body, or use a condom.
In reading these tips to J today, he thought they sounded incomplete. It should be said that these are pieces to a puzzle that you should put together yourself based on your partner’s likes, dislikes and arousal. What’s right for one is not necessarily perfect for another. Thus, the best tip I can give you is for adaptibility and perception.
Don’t get jumpy or out of the mood if your partner mentions something that they like or would prefer you try. What is worse is that they let you do a shoddy job of it and never tell you.
Pay attention to what illicits a overwhelming response from your partner.
fellatio, blow job, oral sex, sex, intimacy
December 1st, 2006 at 5:43 pm
Guys like a girl who swallows because it shows ENERGY, and that’s something that turns us on. Nothing chills me faster than a passive woman. But C. has taught me that the act of ejaculation can be quite an event, and the come can end up flying about and making the whole experience less focused on just one thing: swallowing. There’s a delightful come shot I have floating around on my computer of this, I wish there was some way to upload it here.
December 2nd, 2006 at 10:18 am
I enjoy the act of swallowing very much. There is an intimate eroticism about it. Psychologically, I feel like spitting it into a towel, or some other disposal doesn’t say emotionally positive things to your partner about your enjoyment of the experience. J and I do have towels by the bed, sometimes…but that’s for wet, warm clean up and massage afterward…
Now, coming on your partner is something different entirely. There’s a dirty erotic quality to it that is intensely arousing.
I got a nice little giggle at “can be quite an event.” For some reason great fanfare with streamers and a drum section came to mind…
December 2nd, 2006 at 3:48 pm
I got a nice little giggle at “can be quite an event.� For some reason great fanfare with streamers and a drum section came to mind…
Perhaps, Lola darling, we can start up a business in sex parties and paraphenalia?
December 2nd, 2006 at 7:02 pm
Alright, but no trombone section…I detest them.
December 2nd, 2006 at 7:18 pm
No? My best friend in high school played trombone. We tried to start a rock band, but you can guess the ending to that story. He called the band “Toilet Paper,” and we really stunk up the joint.
December 2nd, 2006 at 7:20 pm
No, no trombone…But, you can serve “vanilla ice cream, chocolate syrup, maraschino cherries, and copious amounts of their juice” if you’d like.
December 3rd, 2006 at 8:28 pm
Only if I can use you for the plate….
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