Fellatio, Round 3
Tip #3: Working with what you’ve got
- With as much grace as your fingertips can have in the most sensitive places on your lover’s body, so too can your tongue. Trace delicately the head of his penis, encircling it. Let your tongue explore with mild pressure the underneath side of the shaft. One of my favorite techniques is a side to side motion with my tongue beginning on the upstroke (halfway up the shaft). As he withdraws from my mouth, the tip of my tongue presses against a very sensitive area (the frenulum) and adds extra stimulation.
- There is no better lubricant than spit, so use it. Most fellatio recipients like lots of spit, but others prefer a drier job, so check in with your partner.
- Teeth can, from time to time, play an extra role in the act. But, they should never the lead. Typically, your lips should cover your teeth to keep them from interfering in the strokes. However, kissing and nibbling at the shaft (gently, gently, gently) is also a huge turn-on for some.
- Word of caution: The harder you suck or more pressure you apply is NOT necessarily more arousing. But, some pressure is desireable. I try to inhale gently as he withdraws from my mouth. It creates a very subtle vacuum-type feeling. This is especially poignant as he’s coming…
- Give yourself a hand. This is great because you can cover a lot of the shaft this way without worrying about taking the whole cock in your mouth. You can concentrate on the super-sensitive head and suck hard or softly according to both your tastes. Try placing your lips around the head and rubbing and sucking the tip with your tongue while you use your hand to stroke him.
Next tip: Using breath, accessories, deep throating, and finishing up
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December 1st, 2006 at 12:27 pm
Great picture. Filled my imagination with the best of thoughts. Oh ya, and the writing part was good too.
December 1st, 2006 at 2:56 pm
Yes, the picture…wait, what was the article about?
December 1st, 2006 at 3:09 pm
Where do you get your yummy photos?
BTW, that “Real Sex” episode with the woman who gives blowjob seminars was on HBO again last night and I thought of you. Seems like a more profitable career choice than writing, let me tell you.
December 1st, 2006 at 3:12 pm
Well, I hinted at the podcast
Who knows! But, then I’ll definitely need subjects to demonstrate my prowess on…
December 1st, 2006 at 4:50 pm
[...] - Often an overlooked factor in fellatio, are a man’s testicles. Guys, your part is to keep things looking well-groomed and inviting. There is a certain hesitation to be exploring down there because of the incredible sensitivity. Continue stroking him with your hand. Let your tongue trace over the testes and take them one at a time into your mouth (gently). Massage them gently with your tongue. An alternative to this would be to continue focusing on his erection and let your hands and fingertips find their way to his balls instead. I mentioned before the touch of fingers on such sensitive skin can be very arousing. [...]
December 1st, 2006 at 5:23 pm
I’ll definitely need subject to demonstrate my prowess on…
Why do I think you’ll have many volunteers for that job?
December 27th, 2006 at 2:49 am
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