My Naughty List
Well, it’s officially the holidays now that JT’s Stockroom has sent me my “Holiday Gift Guide” email. And, with the discussion at Polyamorously Perverse about Presents, I thought I’d share a few things on my list:
Three things that I adore:
1. All blindfolds are not created equal. This padded leather one is my favorite. It completely blocks out all light and helps cheaters like me keep from getting a peek at our masters.
2. Njoy Double-ended stainless steel dildo…Oh yes! This is classy and hits all the right spots…
3. Yes, I bought a case for it, but it deserves it’s own drawer in my opinion. The Wartenberg Pinwheel is a must have for our toy bag when we travel. And by our bed it remains when we are home. The most delicate touch with this instrument has a chilling effect on your senses, and being blindfolded simultaneously intensifies it. It is versatile as well for rougher play and an easy way to mimic knife play (if like me, you’re a little too weak in the constitution for that). It is my favorite toy used on me and used by me when I dominate another.
It’s hard to narrow down to the three that I like…There are so many fabulous toys. (I have an upcoming toy review section that I’ll be adding to soon. Look for that.)
Three things that I haven’t tried:
1. Super Deluxe Violet Wand Kit (though I do have and highly recommend the Wartenberg Pinwheel, see above)
2. Bondage Opera Gloves For photography alone, these are beautiful. I can only imagine how elegant they would feel when worn. J knows that these have been on my list for a while.
3. Aneros Prostate Massager: Well, I can’t have everything on my wish list for me, now can I? Plus, I think J would adore this while getting the blow job of his life.
4. (Honorable Mention) There’s something about this candy cane that generates the nervous giggly laughter of our youth, but still manages to bring a little sexy to the occasion. I have a story about a candy cane that I promise not to share…
I often wish I would win a lottery that could ONLY be used for anything related to sex…Don’t worry, I’ll keep dreaming.
December 14th, 2006 at 12:20 pm
The bondage opera gloves are nice, but real opera gloves in material are quite inexpensive and look wonderful.
December 14th, 2006 at 1:32 pm
Dear Tom, you missed the point of the opera gloves entirely…the erotic thing about the gloves is that they posess an elegant quality, coupled with a most debauched, deviant quality.
Photos in regular opera gloves would be elegant…I prefer the perverse.
December 14th, 2006 at 2:40 pm
I didn’t miss it, dear Lola, it’s just more superstructure than I prefer. KISS. Good advice, acronymically or not.
December 15th, 2006 at 9:19 am
There is nothing like leather, its feel and yes, it’s biological/animalistic association. Those gloves look hot, but the element of restraint, on its own, creates many interesting possibilites/scenarios/fantasies.
December 15th, 2006 at 12:42 pm
J and I are new members of a BDSM Society in the City. Among their many fabulous features is a series of classes on various topics. There is a Japanese Rope Bondage class that J is currently taking. I can hardly wait to begin experiencing the results. We’ve played in some very intricate positions with several kinds and colors of rope. The photography is beautiful….
December 15th, 2006 at 5:51 pm
The photography is beautiful…
I certainly hope you’ll share some of the results with us.
January 9th, 2007 at 9:49 pm
[...] 5. For BDSM aficionados, the iBuzz can assist in sensory deprivation (muting out all unintentional sound). Add a blindfold, like the one on My Naughty List and you’ve got a number of possiblities in any scene you decide upon with your partner. [...]