Fellatio, Round 1
Some women claim they love nothing better than the feel of their partner’s erection in their mouth. Some indulge their partner in it only for his benefit. Some are perhaps too timid to attempt it–after all, how the hell do we gals know what to do with those foreign, external objects hanging between the legs of our fellas. Sure, you figure it out, experiment, ask your fella what feels the best. But, do you then reach a plateau for performance? Or, would you rather have a repetoire of things to pull out of your hat, ensure a good experience, and make his toes curl in the process?
Tip #1: Make sure you’re BOTH comfortable.
- If he’s standing, I’d recommend giving him something to lean against (dresser, wall, anything). The wind will leave his sails eventually and you don’t want him going all weak in the knees over it. And, you should make sure your knees are saved as well (crumpled up jacket or pillow under them works nicely).
- If he’s lying down, all the better if it is a bed or a reclined seat. If that reclined seat is in a car, beware gals. Torquing to the side isn’t often comfortable long term.
- To take maximum advantage of angles, especially if you’d like to try and take him all the way into your mouth, I recommend my favorite position: you lying on the bed with your head hanging over the side, and him leaning into you. This position also works well for him to please you in some way. And mutual stimulation makes fellatio even more arousing. I suppose I like this position the best because it also takes away some control that I have in pleasing him. He is the one to guide the frequency and depth of the thrusts.
I’ll discuss angles next…
fellatio, oral sex, blow job, sex, orgasm
November 30th, 2006 at 10:49 am
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December 2nd, 2006 at 2:14 am
If your head is hanging over the side, won’t you start getting a headache?
December 2nd, 2006 at 10:14 am
It does if your head it literally “dangling” off of the side of the bed. But, just resting your neck at the edge of the bed (causing a slight tilt to your head) serves the same purpose.
Good question, though.
January 25th, 2007 at 10:31 am
thanks, i needed this.