The Seven Deadly Sins in Bed: Greed
Power. Money. Sex. It’s a dog-eat-dog world. Are you greedy in bed? That may seem like an easy one to diagnose. After all, tallying who gets off first is the measure of greed…or is it?
Nah. Take me for example. I don’t get off at the drop of a hat, and neither do other women I know. That doesn’t mean that my partner is greedy, just because he knows just how to move to get off in about 15 seconds. On the contrary…doesn’t that make me a bit greedy? He’s ready to go and I’m not, so he has to work harder to get me to that point where I’m ready to come too.
Maybe greediness isn’t so simple.
I’m willing to bet that everyone out there has there own definitions of “greedy” in the bedroom. Here are some of the things I personally can help you be less greedy:
1. Stop withholding sex whenever you have a fight. You’re only spiting yourself, and you’re not making anyone feel better. Instead, say your sorry to one another with some hot make up sex.
2. Be willing to go down on your partner without him or her asking. It doesn’t have to be every night, but once in awhile is really nice.
3. Take care of your appearance. IE, shake what’cho mama gave ya! We’re all built a bit differently, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t take a bit of pride in your appearance, at least for your partner’s sake. Shave, at the very least.
You know what, though? Greed can sometimes be a good thing. I love a bit of dom/sub play when we’re both in the mood, and I’ve found that some guys can get off at the mere thought of me getting off. At the end of the night, how much greed is good for you? I’ll let you and your partner(s) decide that one.
Edit from Aurora: I’ve moved! Cum visit me at Between My Sheets!
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