Five Important Steps to a Better Blow Job
Perhaps I’m not the authority on this subject. After all, I don’t have a penis. I don’t know how it feels.
That said, I’ve never had complaints. And, I’ve gotten a lot of requests. So, I must be doing something right. I know that not every girl out there likes to give head. Ladies, change your ways. You can learn to enjoy it…or at least tolerate it. The fellas in your life want blow jobs. Humor them occasionally! Here are my five important steps to a better blow job:
1. Learn to swallow. Swallowing cum is hard; I won’t deny that. Talk to any guy through, and they’ll tell you that yes, they like to cum in your mouth. It just feels better. At the least, allow your man to cum in your mouth and then spit it out if you have to. Over time, however, you’ll learn to swallow, and it won’t be a big deal anymore. If you’re currently have trouble swallowing, check out “How to Be a Cum-Guzzler”.
2. Move your tongue around. If you’re just doing a little head bobbin’, it gets kinda boring. Give him full benefits of your wet, hot mouth - lick, slurp, suck, and constantly mix it up.
3. Let him know you’re alive and enjoying yourself. I get it - some girls don’t like to suck a cock. I can appreciate that. HOWEVER, if you constantly tell your boyfriend that you hate sucking cock, how do you think that will make him feel? Imagine him continually saying, “I really hate licking your pussy. It sucks. It is so gross.” That’s a confident booster, huh? You don’t have to pretend that you love giving head, but give it your best effort to like it a little. And, while you’re giving head, let him know that you’re having fun and that you’re turned on by his huge, hard dick. Moan, look into his eyes, and suck that dick greedily. You have to want it.
4. Don’t ignore the balls. Some guys are more sensitive than others, so definitely be careful. No teeth, please. Some girls, though, forget that the balls are there. Gently sucking or licking a guy’s balls can lead so some of the most intense pleasure possible for a guy. While you’re sucking his shaft, you can also use your hands to carefully fondle them.
5. Suck hard. While most guys will ask that you don’t use your teeth, you don’t have to treat his penis like it’s made of glass. Watch how he strokes himself sometime - he’s probably fairly rough with his cock. I’ve never had a guy complain that I’m sucking too hard…they love it. The harder, the better. Pretend that you’re sucking on a thick milkshake through a straw - yes, you should be sucking that hard.
How do you feel about these tips? Is there anything you would add or remove?
Edit from Aurora: I’ve moved! Cum visit me at Between My Sheets!
December 22nd, 2007 at 8:48 pm
I’ve always been one to swallow, but I did have a few times it was a problem. What I learned to do when he’s had something bad to eat or I’m feeling a bit sensitive swallow wise is to learn when he’s coming and either deep throat as best I can (no tongue contact, no taste) or to ‘lock’ the back of my tongue against the roof of my mouth and ‘catch’ the cum with the front of my tongue. (It sounds a bit complicated, but it’s not.) When it comes to my hubby, I taste him more on the back of my tongue, so doing this means I keep the cum with my spit.
After that, just swallow fast.
When I have a problem, it usually stems from the cum going all over my mouth and tongue. Controlling where it goes helps me.
This might not work for everyone, but you never know.
December 23rd, 2007 at 12:04 am
I find that the best BJs I get are when the girl keeps sucking hard all the way through my orgasm. Some girls let up and hesitate right at the first spurt, and fail to give stimulation at the most sensitive point in time. It feels so much better when she keeps sucking as hard and fast as she can until I’ve finished cumming and pull it out.
December 23rd, 2007 at 12:08 am
Ooo, great tip, Jack. And thanks for the pointers, Lily!
December 23rd, 2007 at 4:33 pm
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